Manifesting thieves.

Many adverts promising lies are thrown at us daily. You cannot open a single piece (if that’s the word) on social media, without some bullshit being peddled.

lets begin with the spam phone calls. No, I don’t feel sorry for the twit who’s taken a job, that he/she knows entails lying to people all day everyday. You’ve  installed the app that stops these calls, but these crooks are super smart, and by the time the app is installed, they’ve opened a new gateway.  You should know by now, that after you say “hello”, and you’re greeted with silence, (coz they’re trying to bypass app and plug in), it’s spam. Put the phone down. But we don’t. “I’ve got the app” you think, and feel safe. Maybe it’s old Aunty Mildred from Australia calling. But no…

A woman or man, normally a woman with the most efficient voice says “good day, is this x,y,z that I’m speaking to.” You answer “yes”, and OFF she goes, like a dog with a bone, rabbiting on about ‘an accident you had, which you’re owed compensation for’.

Slightly irritated, you put the phone down, not bothering to entertain her nonsense, and sometimes you yell a healthy F. OFF! Depending on your mood.

I scratch my head wondering…

How is it possible, for people to phone other people, knowing they’re talking absolute b.s. and feel nothing? She knows, before she puts the telepromt on, to read the lie to you, that she’s nothing but a low down pathetic liar. She or He, is aware that their job is to lie to people, and they’re okay with this! Like politicians and lawyers.

The worst however, is the “MANIFEST” lie. The thousands of adverts that cover our screens, promising soooo many ways to “manifest” dream jobs, partners, homes, ad nauseum…but the most revolting of this lie, is the promise of manifesting millions.

Why?  …

Because there truly are people, desperate people, who’ll spend their last dime signing up to some bogus site that promises to ensure the manifestation of their dreams, mostly money, (which doesn’t happen) , leaving such people feeling like losers (besides broke and depressed).

All confidence in Self is removed when the millions don’t manifest, leaving the desperate person feeling like a total failure and fool, and completely out of pocket. Of course, they’re blamed by the bogus thieves, who’ve taken their money, if they question why the manifesting didn’t come to fruition!

Lets put the bullshit into perspective;

The man or woman who presents The motivational video, that lures the unsuspecting viewer  is only an actor, filmed in hired locations, or studios, and you’ve swallowed it all, putting all of your energy, money and effort in, innocently believing and excitedly expecting!

If one uses just 1 brain cell, and if one had zero conscience, then that one would be the one hiring models and actors, hooking up websites with pictures of glory that’ll blow the unsuspecting persons mind, and that one would be rubbing their palms in delight, as the poor ba..ards give all their money, hoping to purchase heaven, only to land in hell.




Ode to Desperation


It wasn’t so much that I wanted to die

I pleaded and begged for some Peace.

The Gods they just  laughed at me

From them I’d get no release.

‘What should I do?’ I asked my shattered mind

As I panicked with each desperate breath.

The sun no longer shines anymore

The Sun’s been put to death.

‘I try and I try, but I cannot make sense

Of the Storms and the thunder inside

No place to run, no one can hear me

From my burning mind I can’t hide.




A kink in the Armour

Hi Folks

I’ve watched so many talks on TED.X on mental illness, and understand so much about it, as well as being mentally ill myself (I believe in knowledge and education), I could write a book. 🙂 Pity I can’t fix a misfiring, misbehaving brain though! That would be first prize.

Seriously though, doesn’t everyone have some sort of ‘kink in their Armour’?  In today’s stressed out, money driven, success fixated world, surely more and more people are becoming mentally ill in one form or another,  mostly by way of depression?. Unless there are people who just get ‘sad’ for a while, and never suffer depression.

Depression is now called a ‘brain disease’. It’s classed as a mental illness. Not just a bout of ‘feeling blue’, or ‘go for a walk you’ll feel better’, (as so many misinformed keep suggesting to those who are depressed), but a serious disease of the brain. A person who is depressed, most days, cannot get out of bed, let alone shower.

So who is at risk?

The person who’s brain is already sick, and then, through overload of stress,  gets hit with depression that just won’t leave?

Or, could it be that if someone, overloaded with stress, suffers a ‘temporary setback’ and gets depressed for a week or so, is NOT mentally ill? thereby directly contradicting what Scientists have decided what depression is?

Or…. could it be that someone, who suffers a traumatic life event, which has caused a  depression, just has a ‘kink in their Armour’ for a while.?

How depressed do you have to be, in order to be classed as mentally ill?

Well, to my mind, if you suffer from chronic depression, then you could be classed as being mentally ill, but if, through a tragic or stressful life event, you are going through a phase of depression, how can you possibly be classed as being mentally ill? Unless…..according to Science, you, and the rest of the world, are actually mentally ill, in a milder form than chronic depressives perhaps, but ill, nonetheless.

So it then stands to reason, that we all have a kink in our Armour! To a stronger or lesser degree.

Contemplate that one! Would you call yourself mentally ill if you’ve suffered from a bout of depression?

Bullshit always baffles Brains

Hi Folks

I’m totally gasping for air, from either laughing or crying, or both, after reading the biggest crock of s**t ever! It leaves me cold and scared to think that ‘PEOPLE’ who profess to have brainpower, believe this crap………..what am I talking about?

Ok, picture it. Someone gets a brilliant idea to make money on social media. (clap clap, well done!) seriously great! But then, they get inundated with all sorts of rubbish to be included in their social media platform, and rubbing their hands together, thinking of the ‘money hunny’, they go for it.

Who am I talking about? Well I best not say, lest I get into trouble, but I’ll tell you what they publish, and if you aren’t a box of rocks, you’ll instantly know.

Now remember: PEOPLE actually believe this utter junk that is being sold to them!

  • 101 diets to help you shift those extra pounds! …..followed by a page of actual diets that all differ, with various 16 year olds showing off their svelte bodies. (Of course you’re told that X diet will make you lose 10kg in 3 days, Y diet will shift those hefty 10 kgs without exercise! and so on…and then, to top the absolute garbage, you get told that having a colon cleanse will make you lose 20kgs immediately! haha seriously??

So that is just ONE page of total crap. But then we look further……

  • 20 pins to make an updo easily and quickly for long hair….

Oh you try. You try SO darn hard your arms ache, but there is NO way you can get your hair to look anything like the 18 year olds in the pics, so you ………..move along, a wee bit irritated.

Why are you still bothering with this bull? Because bullshit baffles brains! Two pages now, and still you’ve seen with your own 2 eyes that none of what has been presented to you is possible or believable. It’s annoying.

  • You’re over the age of 45 so you decide you’ll search for ‘what to wear for over 45’s’ ooooooh, hell.
  • Up come the most ridiculous outfits that were seen on the streets of Paris, and the runways of Milan….then a young girl wearing jeans and what looks like a VERY expensive and high pair of heels. Nooo you don’t want that. You want something appropriate, comfy yet stylish. So you are now even more annoyed, realising, that if you wanted to see ‘what the other set wear, you could purchase Vogue’, you stop looking, make yourself a cup of tea, sit down and google!!

Your best friend yet. Go to youtube. Punch in whatever it is that you want to know. Watch a great tutorial, so you get to LEARN how to do that wonderful hairstyle. LISTEN to a professional dietician who will explain the hows and whys of weight gain and loss.

The best, well MY best, is to punch in ‘what to wear for my age (not telling it here LOL), and lo and behold, decent, good and solid advice is given, with clothing one can afford, look great in, no matter what your age, they rock it for you, including jewellery.

So who needs to struggle with these bird-brain articles we get sent to our inbox? Of course their interior decor ‘bits’ are an insult to interior decor. Did you know that they have people who find something worthwhile looking at, who then submit that to this particular site, and I wonder if they first peruse the articles, or simply just add them for content?

Well I shall give it a break now and make myself another cup of tea. Google ‘jeans for my body type’, because I made the mistake of thinking that I could no longer wear jeans due to my bum going a tad South, not much!! but still…..then a friend said I was being vain. Highly upset by that comment, I shall now wear jeans, but I must google for a South dropping Butt!

Thanks for dropping by

Till next time

Love Deborah

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On Ego

Hi Folks

So your best friend has sent you an email that’s truly nasty, simply because you smiled at her boyfriend. Of course you smiled at him, due to the nature of the conversation and it was innocent. She’s projected her insecurity onto you, and you are mad! (ego bruised)

An elderly gentleman is walking down the street, and accidently bumps a younger man when walking past him, so the younger guy stops, yells and threatens to kill him! The older gentleman is innocent, as it was an accident, but even his apology is ignored. The younger guy is mad! (ego bruised)

I often ask myself ‘what is wrong with the world’? and the answer always, but always is EGO.

It’s pointless always trying to be the best at everything, because that way, you set yourself up for failure. Sure, you can do your best, but not at the cost of everything you have including your health, and especially not if it involves a huge ego.

If being rich and famous was the best and ideal way to be, then why are the rich and famous so miserable? Because they live on their egos, and a big ego doesn’t make you happy. Simple poor kids laugh in the street and in their broken schools. They have nothing, and they have no egos either. Women who have nothing stand on street corners laughing as their washing dries, they have no egos, nor money but they are happy.

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I’ve seen the poorest people in the world, who don’t have seats in their one roomed homes to sit on, and they sleep on the floor, but they laugh from their bellies at everything, and never complain. No ego.

The moment ego is introduced, and that person believes they are super important in some way, special, gifted, you name it, they are ruined, and so is the company they keep. Egos are dangerous and a plague to get rid of. I’ve met enough massive egos that are sickening, for no man or woman is better than the next.

Truth is, we are all one.  When our bodies fall away, we are all the same. So to walk around while you are on Earth feeling very important is dangerous, because if tomorrow, you lost it all, you would be more than devastated and your massive ego would die a painful death. Best not let him live in the first place.

Till next time

Deborah x

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